As we chatted about this trial in common that morning, the
solutions were hard to find, but LISTENING was a key. In fact active listening
or listening presence has power. We don’t need to say anything even if our nemesis
is talking, even in excess. The Apostle
Paul in his letter to the Colossians 3:12-14 gives us further Biblical
guidance: “Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe
yourself with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Bear
with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one
another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on
love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.”
He goes on suggesting that we sing songs to one another.
Really? How? With gratitude in our hearts to God. Thankfulness is at the center of God’s will
for us. In fact, God is in the praises of His people (Psalm 22:3). Paul said elsewhere to give thanks in all
things, for it is the will of God for us in Christ Jesus (1 Thessalonians
4:16).
So, be kind, listen and be thankful! Any other ideas? Please add a comment for
conversation as we thankfully head into 2015.


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Thanks for sharing your thoughts.